Hi, Tai.
I have given this a lot of thought over the last couple of days, and I have some thoughts I'd like to share with you. First, some snippets from my own story, which will hopefully put my other thoughts into perspective. They are in no particular order of importance or chronology.
1. I played guitar for years before I started building them. People knew me as a guitar player and teacher. A musician friend of mine heard I was going to start building instruments, and ordered a mandolin. I have since completed and delivered that instrument, even though it ended up taking several years (I built a prototype in the meantime to make sure that I could build what he wanted. He requested some tweaks which I incorporated into the final product.) Several other people with whom I've played music and know well have requested or inquired about instruments since then.
My point is that relationships are more important than products. One has to see value in people for who they are, and not what they can spend on a guitar, or how they can contribute to a company's bottom line. Do you have a circle of friends that you regularly hang out with? They don't have to be musicians, and even if they were, they wouldn't be able to keep you in business, unless they are extremely large in number.
This will give you practice in developing relationships in a low-pressure context. It will also help your network, because Person 1 may know a guitar player or teacher that you may not know. That player/teacher may not need a guitar at the moment, but he might need some setups done that he doesn't have to the time or expertise to accomplish.
You might consider learning to play an instrument, especially the guitar, fairly proficiently. This will take many hours, most of them lonely ones spent with just your guitar, or your guitar and a book, or your guitar and a CD/DVD. This will not only help with making friends, it will help with your own instrument making, as it will help you identify with customers who are looking for "that sound" or "that feel", and it will help you demonstrate your guitars as well.
2. I have built a few commissions, and it has been enough to know that I do not want the pressure of doing lutherie for a job. It seems like a perfect way to ruin a wonderful hobby. Many people have asked if I would like to make a living at it, and I always tell them that I would rather keep it as a hobby. I do not have a website at all, any business cards, nor an official-looking email address.
My point is, have you considered doing something else to pay the bills, or to save up until you can do lutherie full-time, maybe in a different location? I figured the pressure of full-time lutherie was not for me. You have to make that decision for yourself. If your bills are looked after by your day job, the feeling of panic might be easier to disperse when it comes to selling a guitar or gaining a commission.
3. Some years ago it was time for me to change jobs, and I really wanted to become an electrician. I inquired at most of the local companies, but no one was hiring at that time, especially when I didn't have any experience. The next occupation on my list of interests was glazing (glass-work, not donuts), so I started applying at the local glass shops. The first one was only looking for someone to clean vehicles in the autoglass department, and I had my sights higher than that, so I moved on, and got a job at the next shop. I stayed there for two years, until I figured that I didn't want to do that for the rest of my life, and that I should get out while I could still afford to. I moved to a different city and started a new job, working there until it became clear that I was not able to make that a lifetime career choice, either. Through some contacts in my hometown, I was able to land a job as an electrician. I am enjoying my work, and even though it is not music-related, it pays the bills and supports my family, in addition to offering some career advances. It's been over ten years since I first wanted to get into electrical, but I've learned some valuable things in the meantime.
My point is, sometimes you just have to wait. I'm in a position now where I am supporting a family of five on a starting wage, and there isn't much left over at the end of the month, but we do what we can and learn to enjoy the little things in life. I'm waiting to be able to go to school, waiting for a wage increase, waiting to move out of the barely adequate mobile home we're living in, and waiting for the day when I have guitar-building facilities again. Don't feel sorry for me, I say this to prove that I'm practicing what I'm preaching. Many people will not have the patience to read what I just wrote, so here is the digest version:
1. Learn to connect with people separate from guitar-building. Some years ago, I read, "You start by building for friends, then friends of friends..." This has been true in my case. No pun intended.
2. Keep your horizons wide, and your options open. Maybe night school would prepare you for a position that you would do well in, and enjoy, while you do lutherie part-time.
3. If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. If that something isn't working, try something else. Life's too short to beat your head against a wall.
Tai, after re-reading this, my words seem cold and distant. I wish we could be in the same room so that you could see my eyes and my smile. I feel for you because my brother has Asperger's, and he has had many challenges that I have not had to face. I'm not going to lie, it takes courage.
When you left Texas, did you leave a foot in the door to get back into North America? Would you even want to?
Best regards, Lincoln
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