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PostPosted: Wed Nov 20, 2013 1:47 pm 
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Alain Moisan wrote:
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So instead of asking why some don't frequent your forum of choice, best to ask why those that do, do.


I beg to differ (respectively, of course…). The question asked by the OP is a very healthy one to ask ourselves. Just like any business of organisation that deals with the public, we should be very attentive as to why people don’t come here, or worst, leave or keep silent. Just being happy with the folks that come here and are cool with how things are going, saying everything is fine and dandy under the sun, would be playing the ostrich, burying our head in the sand.

I have been a full time luthier for 7 years now. If I was able to move from a hobbyist with questionable results to a full time guitar maker producing high end guitars, it is greatly because of the many professionals that used to hang around here, generously feeding me with their valuable knowledge, often acquired in a far more hard way than by grabbing info from a forum. And I am extremely thankful to them. Some are still hanging around here a bit (Mario – or Grumpy – is one that comes to mind), but as it was pointed out on multiple occasions in the past, including in this thread, most pros seem to avoid this place now (or just lurk and keep to themselves). I see this as a significant loss of value for the OLF, and I think it is of the utmost importance that we ( or Lance for that matter…) do something about it if we want the OLF to keep being as popular as it is today, and populated with cutting edge information. (Try searching for “double top” for example, or "polyester" and you’ll see very few threads exploring the technique, and they are starting to be old ones… )

No matter how many amateurs with 10 or 12 guitars behind their back participate and generously give their feedback, it will still remain feedback from amateurs. Advice from several professionals with 100+ and 200+ guitars is significantly more valuable, and I think we should thrive to insure that many more pros get comfortable here and feel safe giving their feedback, techniques or tricks, without some wiseass (pro or amateur for that matter) who somehow feels threatened by a technique different then his starts publically discrediting it . SimonF reference to his thread about EVO fretwire is a very good example of that, I think. To quote Mario:

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"I've had enough of this $h!t..."

… is quite understandably what Simon came to feel, and what others that just were reading the thread as well, pros or not. This sort of discussion (the Simon thread) is just not healthy for the luthier community. Failing to admit that, saying “screw the ones that don’t like a debate!”, is easy to say when you are the one pissing off others, and falls sadly very far from being constructive and beneficial for the OLF.

On the other hand, this discussion, or at least the questions it raises, is a very healthy one, and should not be swiped under the rug. Or else it will eventually be necessary to rename “The Official luthiers forum” to “The amateur luthiers forum”.

My 2 cents…


Alain, that was very well said.

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Todd Stock wrote:
What exactly in that thread was unhelpful, Alain? Be specific and accurate, please.


I'm not saying it was 'unhelpful'. I'm saying it was uninviting. As per being specific about it, I believe Simon has quite clearly explained it.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 20, 2013 2:11 pm 
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Wow ...I never thought that an innocent pondering translated into an internet thread would generate so much controversy.

My initial thoughts when starting this thread were that no matter how eminent a luthier might be, participation on guitar forums could only be advantageous to his business ...no downside that I can see.

The names I mentioned in the OP were just a random few who came to mind ... in no way was I suggesting that there was any kind of moral imperative that they should contribute to forums (and btw I was not being specific about the OLF ...there are other forums out there ...some of which appear to exist only in the imagination of the Padma ...but others actually are out there, in cyberspace ...)

Mario (grumpy) and I have had our run-ins on another forum, but I would just like to say that his contributions are among the most valuable anywhere on the net. I have learnt a helluva lot from his input. And on this forum, Todd Stock's contributions are always models of concise, well thought out observations. It is no coincidence that the literary style of both Mario and Todd tends to the acerbic ...long may it last. Sometimes, reading the threads on another forum (and I am not saying which, but Harry will know what I mean) the luvvy duvvy ambience makes me feel like I am drowning in a tub of molasses ...

Since I have started naming names of valued eminent luthiers who volunteer their knowledge, mention should also go to Howard Klepper, John Arnold, John Hall and Charles Tauber (Charles doesn't post on the OLF) . All these guys are just the best .


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 20, 2013 2:53 pm 
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I think this is a valuable discussion, and not necessarily due to any of the direct answers to the question posed.. (that's been covered pretty thoroughly). The only thing I'll add to that thought is that I've had some very good experiences with sending a direct email to William Cumpiano. He was generous with his advice and the time that it took to write the note, and he was patient with my "newbie" questions, just as the pros that do participate, and share their expertise on this forum are. so if you have a question for a specific expert, send 'em a note. They might just respond.

The discussion that has been raised here got me thinking about the forum, what I've gained from it, the mix of constructive discussion and debate, as well as the discussions that are less constructive, where a valid discussion degenerates into personal attacks, etc.

I am an amateur, will never be a pro, and will never attain a level of expertise in luthiery that will make me among "the smartest guys around" on this forum. In other words, I'm not confused about occupying any higher ground on any of these topics, should a debate ensue. at the same time, I try to contribute when I feel my perspective or experience can help someone who is asking a question that I've experienced (and likely posted requests for help as well).

I am personally thankful for anyone who, in the interest of offering help, responds to questions that I ask. Over time, I've learned that some of us are more knowledgeable than others, and in the case of differing advice, I have the freedom to choose which advice I will follow.

It seems to me that the "rules of the forum" that Lance has set up, and which are the first entry under the guitar building forum, cover the main issue that is raised; specifically not using the forum to mount a "personal attack" on anyone, even if you think that their advice is off-target, and you happen to know better.

Over the four years that I've been a member of this forum, there have been periodic and consistent debates, some of which get personal. Then it blows over and the duiscussion returns to why we're here; to share info. on guitar building techniques. I happen to see the glass as more than half full, and am very thankful for this forum and to the people that share their expertise to help me learn about being a better luthier. Maybe if we all took a quick look at those "rules of the forum" prior to writing that response, especially when we're really bent out of shape, the ratio of insightful guitar stuff to unproductive "whine and cheese" would get even higher.


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That seems like a funny question to ask. Everybody has a different agenda, so the answer has to be "lots of reasons."

Me, I've been away from this place for a really long time, and just happened by for no particular reason. I do read about 8 forums daily and post fairly often, in addition to hosting my own forum (FRETS.NET).

I know any number of competent professionals who don't spend any time at all on the 'net, and some who are there a lot. Some are angry types who "don't suffer fools," and some are simply shy. Best not to read anything into a lack of participation without specific knowledge.

I've had some, er, "health issues" in the last 2.4 years, and my shop has been busier than ever, so I haven't really had time to feed my web sites (FRETS.COM, HomeShopTech.com) or add much to my forum acitvity.

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Filippo Morelli wrote:
It's important to understand that there are different personalities, cultures and styles of communication. But it's a lot easier to just get pissed off and say, "I'm taking my Tonka trucks and getting out of this sandbox." :-)

Filippo


With all due respect Filippo, this point of view is precisely one I'm saying we shouldn't have. Instead of looking at ourselves and wonder what we could do different to be more attractive to luthiers (pros or amateurs), you're sort of telling them 'ligthen up guys, humans will be humans, that's life". Won't work.

The fact is more pro luthiers are moving away from the OLF than new ones come in, and it's not by putting the blame on them for leaving that will bring them back.

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So...I am far more interested in pros that have the capability and inclination to cast a critical eye on their own and other's work and to move things forward, versus builders that offer little other than their own inviolate methods.

Todd, this is a bit simplisitic I think. Have you considered possible there might be pros who would really like to "cast a critical eye on their own and other's work and to move things forward", but in a more pleasant way then what they are seing going on here? It's like you haven't read Simon's explanations for his discomfort on his EVO thread. It's not the 'what', it's the 'how'. It's having to 'defend' a technique from people putting it down when you just wanted to help in the first place. (Or at least that was Simon's situation).

Simon's case is so much a good example of what I'm trying to point out, it's almost funny. We have a pro luthier who tried to share information, who feel he had to defend his data gathering technique from others who didn't seem to try a bit to sound polite and constructive about it, and who got fed up about it and decided to shut up in the future. From my point of view, that is a significant loss for the OLF and it's community. From your point of view, it's seem you think it's better this way, in a "so be it" sort of way.

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I have a friend who is a professional Luthier with over 100 custom guitars built. Each one is different and truly custom and they are beautiful. I asked him if he ever goes on the forums. He replied no, it makes me nervous.

He has a steady clientele and doesn't need any marketing. I believe he is very confident in his outcomes and has a proven track record having seen guitars of his come in for repairs after thirty years.


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Filippo Morelli wrote:
... But it's a lot easier to just get pissed off and say, "I'm taking my Tonka trucks and getting out of this sandbox." :-)

Filippo


What's even easier is to take the extra 10 seconds when composing a post to keep it from being rude and alienating. Anyone who is smart enough to have worthwhile input here is easily smart enough to do this. The question becomes "Why do a few people just keep pissing in the pool?"

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I have an uncanny sense of thread closure being imminent ...shame really...I thought it was a worthwhile topic ...


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I have an uncanny sense of thread closure being imminent ...shame really...I thought it was a worthwhile topic ...


That would be a bummer. But I have a hard time believing this is what will happen. Like I said, I believe this sort of post is quite healthy for the OLF. I hope (and think) that Lance feels the same.

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It seems that we have lost the skill of reasoned debate. Maybe we never had it. Once, a few years back, I disagreed with a poster on an issue. I received a PM saying that he thought that we were friends and what had he done to offend me. It took me all day to compose my response to him and smooth over some seriously hurt feelings. The important thing was that I hadn't attacked him, personally, in any way. That is the important thing to keep in mind.

If the poster is discussing the topic at hand and not attacking anyone personally, than the comments should be taken as the opinion of the poster based on whatever experience they may have. If your experience is different and you have drawn a different conclusion, then that should be OK and there should no ruffled feathers. It's when we cross the line into challenging the integrity of the poster that the forum becomes uncivil and reasoned debate breaks down.

Here are the three rules that I go by.
  1. Experts in the field can look at the same evidence and come to different conclusions.
  2. If someone disagrees we me, it doesn't mean that he thinks I'm an idiot or disregards my experiences.
  3. If I disagree with someone, I keep my comment strictly to the topic at hand and try to explain why I disagree. I never mention the person with whom I disagree



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 20, 2013 6:52 pm 
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To Todd and other like-minded individuals,
To be clear, I have absolutely no personal issues with you or anyone else on the forum. As I mentioned, I think this is an interesting crowd and I'm sure I would get along fine with all of you outside the forum. However, I do believe you are either missing or disagreeing with a rather simple idea which is the following: Communicating in a respectful and kind manner is morally superior to communicating in a blunt, rude, or sarcastic manner.

It really is as simple as that. Being respectful doesn't mean you are watering down your point. It is very easy to communicate in a concise and to the point manner while not being antagonistic. In my EVO Fretwire thread, I demonstrated what I personally consider would be a respectful and proactive response from someone who disagreed with every point I made. I think there is a world of difference between that and the first post by Todd Stock in that thread.

I am no stranger to criticism. I actively seek it out with my guitars. I also love philosophy and debate. I come from a theistic worldview and I love discussing politics and religion with people of differing worldviews. In short, I am incredibly hard person to offend -- but that doesn't mean I will choose to actively engage in scenarios that I find unpleasant.

Please note: I am not saying that anyone individual(s) is acting intolerable. But I have found that over my time here at the OLF, a fair percentage of my threads or posts have been met with posts that I considered antagonistic, dismissive, or slightly attacking. Again, not a huge deal but enough to make me realize that I would prefer spending my time doing other things. Sadly, there are several highly regarded builders who feel the same way I do about the OLF. Take from that what you will.



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Simon, my recollection is that Todd explained at least twice, and maybe thrice what he meant by the "silly" " reference , and that there was no "ad hominem" personal attack whatsoever. Or as he put it ..."ad hominid" ...but hey, we can't all be Latin scholars ...


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Well, SOME Loothiers like me, with a full 1/2 guitar under my belt, will continue to provide the only correct advice you'll find on this here forum. You may rest easy now...


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HI Murray,
Certainly, he did - but that was a day or so later and a couple pages into the thread I believe - and so, for me, the feel of the thread had already turned south a bit. Again, not a big deal at all. I try to always give people the benefit of the doubt. But the point still stands as I could reference a great number of posts from Todd and others that have the same effect. Please understand, I am not trying to "split hairs" here and I know that sometimes people just have off days. Secondly, there are children starving in many parts of the world -- I try not to let petty things ever become more than what they are. I am no one to judge -- however, Kent's comment about "thinking a second before you post" is very salient and would make for a much more enjoyable forum for myself and others.

I think I have said all I can on this topic (and repeated myself too much at this point). I will still hang around but may do so under a different name - something subdued and humble like "The OLF's Best Luthier".


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Personally I don't think that anonymity is a fitting solution to any problems. In fact I believe it would create more issues. When one is anonymous they are no longer responsible for their actions and can say/do whatever they want with no repercussion. I think that having people know who you are is a much better way to have the forum. Keeps the riff raff down IMO.


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Just to clarify, my desire for an anonymous username is not that you all wouldn't know who I am. It is that my prospective customers couldn't google "Simon" and something to do with lutherie -- then find a post of mine where an idea of mine is criticized. In other words, the only reason I get "drawn" into these discussions is that I feel I have to give a defense for my ideas so that I come across as well-informed (which in all fairness to me, I am). Do any of you remember Scott van Linge? His ideas are a bit far out. If I was a potential customer of his, I know that his internet discussions would turn me away from his work just because I don't feel he was able to give a well-reasoned defense for his ideas.

Well, the same thing applies to me. Does fretwire affect tone? I mention an experiment that leads me to that conclusion. Someone responds that my methodology is flawed and that the idea is silly. Then prospective customers might come to the conclusion that my intellectual foundation as a builder is not strong, etc...

Again, disagreements are fine by me -- in fact, I welcome them -- it is the argumentative/dismissive/condescending/etc. nature that I find frustrating and not pleasant to be involved in. For the record, I don't feel that any OLF member has crossed a line with me in terms of bad behavior -- again, it just seems things are more confrontational and more argumentative for my tastes.

I hope that clarifies things...



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Simon, you were actually the first to use the term "silly". in your original post in the evo vs stainless topic


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Todd Stock wrote:
I consider political correctness and it's bastard stepchild, 'reasonable debate', to be a tool for preventing effective communication, rather than enhancing it


You know what else does that? Being an A-hole.


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I'm not sure that anyone has a mind like mine, Simon - I grew up in a home with a large, fractious population which valued spirited debate and had no room for those that failed to offer an aggressive, rational defense of their ideas, or who chose to take offense rather than give fair warning. Being raised by wolves has it's advantages.


Okay, so we can all understand that you are carrying some baggage onto the forum that prevents you from thinking rationally sometimes, or at least prevents you from being capable of considering other peoples opinions in a calm manner. Hyper-agression is built into your personality, so you are unable to actually tolerate an opinion other than your own, and must attack it and force others to be aggressive or retreat.

Problem is, there's more than one way to skin a cat, and different people will appreciate different points of view.

If 5 people post 5 different methods, there's more chance that someone will find a solution that works for their particular question.

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Hi Jeff,
I am not sure I understand your post. You are right in that I did use that term in my original posting to voice my internal position -- in other words, to show my skepticism regarding the tonal effect of fret material. However, that comment was not directed at anyone. I hope you can see the difference between thinking something is silly and actually saying to someone that their thought/comment is silly. (and yes, I know that Todd clarified his response later in that thread). A parallel would be making a post about a finish choice and stating you thought it would look ugly but were pleased with the outcome and then someone posting that they thought it was ugly.

FYI, I will be departing the forum but a good friend of mine named "Toonces" will check in here occasionally on my behalf.


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Todd Stock wrote:
I consider political correctness and it's bastard stepchild, 'reasonable debate', to be a tool for preventing effective communication, rather than enhancing it. We're not discussing our second cousin's extraordinarily ugly child here - direct, accurate, and concise communication will not interfere with next year's holiday plans, but will permit the interested builder to better understand the pros and cons of a particular idea or methodology.


Todd, cut the crap, ok? You are way articulate enough to know and understand we can have "direct, accurate, and concise communication" in a en environment that is pleasant to do so. That is a pretty basic skill required to live and function in society, regardless of the type of family you were raised in.

If you want to "better understand the pros and cons of a particular idea or methodology", there needs to be people willing to share these methodologies and knowledge in the first place.

No matter how you put it Todd, or how you see it, if more pro luthiers leave and never come back, it is not a good thing for the OLF, and futhermore for people on it. That's not rocket science. If there is anything we can change in our way of acting that can change that, I think we should take a minute or so to consider it.

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Todd Stock wrote:
Do we have to cover basic personal insults versus actually having some sort of rational thought worth expressing, Chuck? If you are going to call someone an as whole (note spelling and word use), at least attempt to do so with a trace of finesse...it is really not all that difficult to convey the notion with some flare and humor. PM me...I can probably help you to put together something that we'll find amusing.


Interesting. I didn't mention you specifically. Why would you think I meant YOU?
It seems to me you're taking it a little personally.

Also, according to the definition of "irrational", I was being rational. You gave a condition that caused an effect, I concurred, and offered a further condition that ALSO caused a similar effect. How was that irrational?

As to it's worth, that's a subjective matter, as it is with your insults and barbs. What makes them so worthy of expression? Your baggage?

irrational [ɪˈræʃənəl]
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2. incapable of reasoning
3. (Mathematics) Maths
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Todd Stock wrote:
Chuck...please...you quoted me. If that was intended to be indirect, I need to spend some time bringing you up to speed on what constitutes a direct versus indirect attack. I can ghost-write your posts for you, but don't you think a little time and effort on your part would be worth the satisfaction of knowing you did it on your own?


Todd, don't get your panties in a bunch!


I quoted you to merely give context to what I was talking about. If I had posted immediately behind you with the same comment without quoting you, it would be the same.

I wasn't aiming the comment at you to say YOU were an A-Hole any more than you were aiming at Mike Mahar to say that HE SPECIFICALLY was aiming to stifle effective communication.

The subject of your post was "political correctness and reasoned debate", in response to something Mike said.

The subject of my post was "being an a-hole as having a similar effect" in response to something YOU said.

ANYONE could be an A-hole in that context.

So why are you getting your panties bunched over an innocuous comment of mine that could apply to ANYONE being an a-hole?

It seems to me that YOU'RE the one being irrational.

What's your rationale for taking it personally, other than "I quoted you", as quoting you merely provides context and is not enough to connect you subjectively to the comment without some reason to connect you?

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Todd Stock wrote:
Chuck...really? Let me help you out here. If attempting to really insult someone - and particularly their intelligence - put some effort and creativity into it, man! Don't just sit there and flail...have a plan and execute it! Get fired up! Watch that 'flying high, now!!!' scene in Rocky...BE Stallone...all 5'5" of him!!! OWN the insult...get behind it and PUSH!!!

Honestly...I am just not feeling that you are giving this your best shot. I KNOW you can do better.


But I wasn't trying to insult you.

I can see how you would be taking this a little personally though, so I'm willing to apologize.

I'm sorry Todd, I should have thought more about what I said.

I didn't mean for you to take it personally.

[uncle]

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