Ok good information thank you for providing it.
How you are checking relief is not how it's done we are looking for a very gentle forward bow curve between the nut and the 12th.
You said: "All this is starting to make me wonder if my grave mistake was taking the guitars so far away to have the work done and that I should have had the work done by somebody in a similarly damp climate!
There's little doubt that the luthier in question is very experienced, they have a good reputation from asking around on forums and the like, have been established many years, have built custom guitars, written books on the subject even, etc. Hence why I went to them."
Good to know and I suspect this may be some of all of your issue RH swings. Pro luthiers in the states know or should know that our shops have to be maintained close to 45% RH year around and there is an expectation that we will do what it takes regardless of the hoops to jump though to make this so. We want a stable RH so that when things go home necks don't move, bridges don't lift, tops don't crack and frets don't sprout.
Now my friend there is also an expectation with guitar owners that you will humidify and dehumidify as needed and as required. I guarantee my work which is not a common thing but I also have an expectation that the guitar's steward will also care for the instrument properly.
It's entirely possible for a guitar to live its entire long life and even have servicing in 70% or more RH. But the work for something requiring precision should be done at that level too. So where it was done is suspect for the climate.
Regarding a good reputation fretwork is a different animal and it doesn't get done well because someone knows how to make a pretty rosette. There are physics concerns, RH concerns, player technique concerns and more. Even string gages can dictate to some extent the need for high quality fret work. Lower mass strings have less inertia to overcome and they tend to lash out more making lower action more difficult. We have also taught fretwork with classes and on a private basis too. Without saying who we have had some very well known, established if not leaders in the field as our students and we were asked to keep it private and private it will stay. But it underscores that someone with 700 guitars to their name was smart enough and cared enough for their clients to be sure they knew how to provide the value associated with awesome fretwork. We have had multiple top shelf Luthiers as students in private classes. I see this as an excellent Doctor going back for refresher courses and that's always a good thing.
If you go back to the same provider one of you has to be prepared to match the RH at all times of the other.... and I don't see that happening. Are there other providers in your same geography that could be an option?
Regarding action if it buzzes or sizzles with a moderate attack with a pick it's too low. I can't and won't send an instrument home that will rattle from the frets if someone digs in with a pick and a moderate attack. I have a famous jazz guitarist with two D'Aquistos that were custom made for him (he played with Miles Davis back in the day) that likes action at half the level I indicated above. He has it and we could do it but his attack has to be his. If I played as I do it would rattle.
Anyway what is most interesting is that both guitars do the same thing so I think there is a mismatch in the RH of the work and the RH where you live. It's also possible to test this if you knew the RH where the work was done, duplicated it and waited a month for the guitars to settle in at that RH. There is wood memory too so a return to what it was right after the work was completed is not always possible
Another option is to find out the RH in the providers shop and if they observe strict RH control and then match it at your place in a room or with a case humidifier. I don't like this option because if my guitars are not out I won't grab one when I hear a song in my head and terrorize folks with my playing and singing.....
Do you have a first name my friend I feel impolite not addressing you by your first name, I'm Hesh, got stuck with it they didn't let me vote? We have an excellent reputation with over 400 five star reviews and never any other review from anyone we actually did work for. Both of us are formally trained and my business partner taught Lutherie at the top Lutherie school in the world in my view. We service around 1,100 instruments a year and if you send us one we will refuse it and it may get damaged in shipping. We don't accept shipped in work so my interest here is helping you I just want to try to fill in some blanks for you that I do understand what I am speaking and live and breath this stuff ever day. We are as low last month turning away 70% of the work that comes our way for bandwidth reasons and wanting to have a life too.....
So in a perfect world find a luthier who knows their stuff in your climate. The loose fret is inexcusable and you should check for more as you have but use a 6" engineer's scale and tap each fret three places the ends and the middle. You will hear a difference in the resulting tone if one is loose and the loose one you have is a good standard to do first so you can say "ah, I hear what this guys is speaking of."
Good on you for on your own already checking, most people would have never thought of that so I'm impressed!
SGs of that vintage do have rubber necks at times that move with gravity and other things including massive movement with RH swings. A great provider will account for this with all things checked and even addressed in the playing position.